I always solve my own problems instead of letting others solve them for me. You just sound like a big baby all the time and look like one too.
Well 1) I did solve it. I found a plugin for the simplemachines forum, Im not going to make a damn seperate DB forum, I don't own/develop DB.
2) A problem shared is a problem halfed. Having multiple minds working on something increases productivity ten-fold
3) People are one of the most abundant resources on our planet, and one of the most underused, Grabbing people together to work on something does no harm.
4) Insulting/Putting others down is a simple, minor act. It doesn't effect me, but can effect many others, From many a times of bullying since I can remember, I only feel positive emotions and guilt, so luckily this time you haven't caused a suicide, And a lovely quote "Humans only commit violent, or barbaric acts for the satisfaction of anothers suffering, take away that satisfaction, and the act is empty." I have made this act empty for you.
5)IF you had that act all the time, which I highly doubt because you were much kinder before your inactivity period, and hopefully this is just a phase, but if you were always like that, I can understand why most the active users left before 2011, and a good proporition before 2007!